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Slapping a 4 year old

September 2, 2009 Leave a Comment

While I was on my way back to work from the grocery store, I walked by three women. One of them was talking about a four year old, and said the following:

…and he hit his mom! So I slapped him in his face and said, “Don’t you dare hit your mother!”

I find issue with that woman’s actions (and am reviled by the pride and gusto with which she related them) for several reasons. I believe parents have the right to choose whether to spank their children or not, but to slap a four year old across the face, let alone someone who is not your child?

Even adults find great insult in getting slapped. And how do you teach a child not to hit when you “discipline” him with the same type of behavior you’re trying to change in the first place?

Your thoughts?

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